AITAH for leaving my boyfriends NYE family gathering after what I was hearing them say?

A little background info, my boyfriend is 25 and I'm 24. We have only been together for 5 months, and I have not met his family yet (besides his mom) until yesterday. Around 6 yesterday I drove over to my boyfriends aunts house, she was hosting a family gathering for NYE. I met up with my boyfriend who was chatting with his cousins. I met them and my boyfriend took me around to meet everyone. I didn't drink because I drove myself, but everyone else was drinking including my boyfriend. Everything was going fine until his grandpa sparked up a politcal discussion. I'm not politcal so I really wasn't interested, but the conversation went towards a more racist tone. I am 1/4th black. I don't really look black, but I obviously don't look fully white. My boyfriend is aware of this. His family begin talking about black people in general in a bad way, and his grandpa started specifically started talking about people who have died to police. I fully checked out and left whenever I heard the n word drop. I didn't let my boyfriend know I was leaving, and most were too drunk to even see me leave. I got home and slept, woke up this morning to a message from my boyfriend asking me why I left. I told him his family were being racist. And he said "they weren't being racist to you, that's what they just like talking about" he was telling me I shouldn't have left without letting him know and that I'm just looking too deep into it. I don't know where to go from here. I haven't messaged him back and I'm not sure if I'm going to. AITAH? Edit- I haven't been able to reply back to any so I'd thought I'll put an update. I messaged back my (now ex)boyfriend. I told him I really was not comfortable about what his family were saying, and I felt very disrespected when he didn't do anything about it. He knows about my heritage and still didn't say anything about it. I'm incredibly disappointed in him (and his family) and I decided to break it off with him. He didn't take it well. He insulted me, and I had to resort to blocking him on everything. I'm not going to mention the insults because they are pretty bad and will probably get me banned. That's it for now, but thank you for all of the advice and comments submitted by /u/No-Spray-8418 to r/AITAH link comments
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