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Microsoft plans to continue supporting Windows 10 through 2025, after which the company expects users to move to Windows 11 (or Windows 12, if you believe the rumors). But if you have an older PC, you might not be able to upgrade the operating system due to stricter system requirements for Windows 11. And that […] The post Lilbits: Killing Windows 10 in 2025 could turn millions of PCs into eWaste (or at least compromise their security) appeared first on Liliputing.
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*AITA for not giving my son's mom make up days after he fell out of a tree?*

My son Ashton is in the 4th grade and I share custody of him with my ex. We have a schedule where we basically get him one week each. There were times where she dicked me by taking extra days without giving me the same time back. For example, she took him to visit her family in another state and came back two days later because of "flight issues." Because that wasn't her fault, she refused to comp me with extra days. Stuff like that. Ashton's school is connected to a park and every Friday they do PE there. Well he's 9 and does stupid things and decided to see how far he could climb a tree. He got pretty far and then fell out. He had to get emergency surgery on his leg and got a bad concussion. He stayed overnight and then had another surgery on Saturday and released that day. My ex and I didn't discuss the custody schedule. We were concerned with other matters. On Sunday, my ex said she was going to pick Ashton up for the start of her week and I reminded her that he can't be moved around like that. He's still loopy from the concussion and medicine and how are you going to get a kid with a broken leg into your two seat Porsche? Another thing is that he's still not able to wash himself and he will NOT let his mom do that. Just me. I told her she can visit but needs to prepare for him to stay. She was angry but knew I had a point and there were doctor orders. Long story short, my son stayed with me six days later because my ex couldn't get the time off work whereas I WFH. Our 19yo son agreed to help take care of Ashton when Ashton needs a guy for something. Ashton can now use crutches and recovered from his concussion and can go back to school on Monday. My ex said she wanted to be compensated for the six days she lost by having Ashton by getting two weeks instead of one. I said nope. She said that was unfair. I reminded her of all those times when I lost days for things that wasn't her "fault" and you refused to comp me. It's not my fault Ashton's dumbass fell out of a tree and you couldn't get a week off so I'm not comping you. I told her I'm not going to be flexible with you when you aren't flexible with me. Edit: No, my son doesn't get to pick and choose which parent he wants to stay with. That's basically parentifying him. Edit: He couldn't wash himself because he was drugged up for a few days and it took a few days to clear his system. Also, he has a cast and can't get in or out of the tub. You have watch him because he will end up wetting his cast. Also he needs both hands to balance in the tub and obviously can't do that and wash his hair at the same time. submitted by /u/National-Swan-3759 to r/AmItheAsshole [link] [comments]
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AITA for not giving my son's mom make up days after he fell out of a tree?

My son Ashton is in the 4th grade and I share custody of him with my ex. We have a schedule where we basically get him one week each. There were times where she dicked me by taking extra days without giving me the same time back. For example, she took him to visit her family in another state and came back two days later because of "flight issues." Because that wasn't her fault, she refused to comp me with extra days. Stuff like that. Ashton's school is connected to a park and every Friday they do PE there. Well he's 9 and does stupid things and decided to see how far he could climb a tree. He got pretty far and then fell out. He had to get emergency surgery on his leg and got a bad concussion. He stayed overnight and then had another surgery on Saturday and released that day. My ex and I didn't discuss the custody schedule. We were concerned with other matters. On Sunday, my ex said she was going to pick Ashton up for the start of her week and I reminded her that he can't be moved around like that. He's still loopy from the concussion and medicine and how are you going to get a kid with a broken leg into your two seat Porsche? Another thing is that he's still not able to wash himself and he will NOT let his mom do that. Just me. I told her she can visit but needs to prepare for him to stay. She was angry but knew I had a point and there were doctor orders. Long story short, my son stayed with me six days later because my ex couldn't get the time off work whereas I WFH. Our 19yo son agreed to help take care of Ashton when Ashton needs a guy for something. Ashton can now use crutches and recovered from his concussion and can go back to school on Monday. My ex said she wanted to be compensated for the six days she lost by having Ashton by getting two weeks instead of one. I said nope. She said that was unfair. I reminded her of all those times when I lost days for things that wasn't her "fault" and you refused to comp me. It's not my fault Ashton's dumbass fell out of a tree and you couldn't get a week off so I'm not comping you. I told her I'm not going to be flexible with you when you aren't flexible with me. Edit: No, my son doesn't get to pick and choose which parent he wants to stay with. That's basically parentifying him. Edit: He couldn't wash himself because he was drugged up for a few days and it took a few days to clear his system. Also, he has a cast and can't get in or out of the tub. You have watch him because he will end up wetting his cast. Also he needs both hands to balance in the tub and obviously can't do that and wash his hair at the same time. submitted by /u/National-Swan-3759 to r/AmItheAsshole link comments
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*AITA for not marrying someone just because she's pregnant?*

I 27M unfortunately got my gf (25F) pregnant 3 months into dating. She was on birth control but it failed. In hindsight, I should have also used condoms, but I figured the BC was supposed to be 99.9% effective, I never thought Id be that 0.1%. We had talked about politics quite a lot and were both pro choice and she said if she had an accidental pregnancy, she'd have an abortion. After getting pregnant, she changed her mind and wanted to keep it. I wont lie that Im not happy about this decision but I realize its her choice and I dont get a say, is what it is. She's now almost 7 months pregnant and very much showing. Her parents are very traditional and her dad is a relatively well known person in his community, he has a somewhat high profile job as well, even has a Wikipedia page. To say her parents are trying to get us to get married before the kid is born is putting it lightly. It started off just expecting "so when are you getting married" and now its been more "you better get married before this kid is born because my grandkid wont be a bastard". Personally Im not interested in marriage, my parents are both married and divorced twice, most marriages in my extended family have gone the same, and I just dont really care for the institution. Not knocking it for people who choose it but its not for me. Even if it were, I wouldnt feel ready to marry my gf anyway because we still havent even been together for a full year. Id want to date for at least 2 years before getting married. With my GF, Im not sure if we'd really be together still had she not gotten pregnant, I would rather see if we can make us work than not try, but Im not keen on jumping into marriage, just because there'd be a kid in the picture. I think she's a great person but I wouldnt say I feel like Im in love with her. The GF started off indifferent but is now trying to get married as well. I dont think its so much she wants to be married to me as much as her parents have convinced her she'll be an embarrassment to have a kid out of wedlock. In a twist, last week, her father offered to buy the ring, pay for the wedding, and give us 100k to get married before the kid is born. Not to be nice but save himself from what he feels is an embarrassment. The whole thing just feels slimy to me. We both have good jobs and while the money would be nice, we dont really need it, I make enough in my job to provide for kid, as does she. AITA for not just sucking it up and marrying her even if Im not really in love with her ? submitted by /u/ScaleProfessional574 to r/AITAH [link] [comments]
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AITA for not marrying someone just because she's pregnant?

I 27M unfortunately got my gf (25F) pregnant 3 months into dating. She was on birth control but it failed. In hindsight, I should have also used condoms, but I figured the BC was supposed to be 99.9% effective, I never thought Id be that 0.1%. We had talked about politics quite a lot and were both pro choice and she said if she had an accidental pregnancy, she'd have an abortion. After getting pregnant, she changed her mind and wanted to keep it. I wont lie that Im not happy about this decision but I realize its her choice and I dont get a say, is what it is. She's now almost 7 months pregnant and very much showing. Her parents are very traditional and her dad is a relatively well known person in his community, he has a somewhat high profile job as well, even has a Wikipedia page. To say her parents are trying to get us to get married before the kid is born is putting it lightly. It started off just expecting "so when are you getting married" and now its been more "you better get married before this kid is born because my grandkid wont be a bastard". Personally Im not interested in marriage, my parents are both married and divorced twice, most marriages in my extended family have gone the same, and I just dont really care for the institution. Not knocking it for people who choose it but its not for me. Even if it were, I wouldnt feel ready to marry my gf anyway because we still havent even been together for a full year. Id want to date for at least 2 years before getting married. With my GF, Im not sure if we'd really be together still had she not gotten pregnant, I would rather see if we can make us work than not try, but Im not keen on jumping into marriage, just because there'd be a kid in the picture. I think she's a great person but I wouldnt say I feel like Im in love with her. The GF started off indifferent but is now trying to get married as well. I dont think its so much she wants to be married to me as much as her parents have convinced her she'll be an embarrassment to have a kid out of wedlock. In a twist, last week, her father offered to buy the ring, pay for the wedding, and give us 100k to get married before the kid is born. Not to be nice but save himself from what he feels is an embarrassment. The whole thing just feels slimy to me. We both have good jobs and while the money would be nice, we dont really need it, I make enough in my job to provide for kid, as does she. AITA for not just sucking it up and marrying her even if Im not really in love with her ? submitted by /u/ScaleProfessional574 to r/AITAH link comments
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