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UPDATE- AITA for rolling my eyes at my boyfriend's proposal because it took 25 years of me begging?

At the time of my original post, my boyfriend and I had not spoken since the engagement fight. I've been with him long enough to know that when he goes and closes the bedroom door before I get in that's a signal that I should sleep in one of the guest rooms so I did that. However this morning I broke the ice. I told him about how dismissed I felt over the years. I also said that we are both in our 50s and these last few years have taught us that people at work who kiss the ground you walk on one day can easily turn on you the next. And true partners in life are valuable and hard to find, so I wished he'd treat me like I'm valued. Instead he treats me like he thinks prettier, better, and just as loving is always around the corner. I apologized for the eye roll but told him that if he wants marriage, I want a quick committed timeline and genuine happiness from him to be marrying me. I don't need a big party. He listened to me and finally asked if this was about the money/ security. He told me that being an executive's girlfriend required things of me, but if I wanted to work I could have. He said he doesn't think I'm grateful enough for the position in society I was in due to his career. But that he's not mad about the eye roll- he said he didn't succeed by being that sensitive. He went on to say I was not his prisoner so I can leave at any time. But to remember he won't tolerate being made my prisoner either via manipulation. He said that for what it's worth, the engagement ring is mine and I could do whatever I wanted with it. He will also not be accused of not providing for his daughter so be assured he won't shirk child support. But that he felt what I said before was emotional blackmail. So he no longer wants to go forward with marrying but says if I'd like to travel with him that's fine. Him traveling is non negotiable and so if I wanted to get a job it would have to be a remote job. It was a sad conversation and I spent a few hours alone after that. I felt I had nothing to lose so I just asked him if he would support me getting an associate's, but that most associate's for technical careers were in person. He then dropped the bombshell that if I wasn't traveling with him he wasn't going to go those periods without sex. I was astounded by his callousness because he's back to take it or leave it. We fought again with me saying we're all feeling the effects of age, I've supported him through health issues, and if he thinks he can just find somebody who has that loyalty I've shown him, he's wrong. At this point I'm looking for ways out. I can't say I haven't been tempted to say I'll travel with him and try to get a remote job but also realize how resentful I am that he continues to need to have the power in the relationship. I don't think I'll ever know my value truly, but something telling me there has to be better out there, at least in a partner. submitted by /u/Throwawayproposalfin to r/AITAH link comments
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I found my girlfriend's secret stash of lingerie, am I wrong for thinking something is fishy here?

I (30M) have been with my girlfriend (28F) for around 3 years now, been living together for half of that. Relationship is mostly great, though sex and romance has been a reoccurring issue. We rent a 3 bedroom house together, sharing one and we each have another bedroom as our personal "office" since we both work hybrid jobs. In the first little bit when we moved in sex and romance (i.e. date nights) were much more frequent than they are now, tapering off gradually after the first 6 months in. I figured at first that this was normal and that it was just part of normal ebb and flow after the "honeymoon phase" of moving in, but it's been almost a year and it feels like nothing has changed. I don't believe it is due to any lack of effort from my part. I still do my fair share of the housework, I eat healthy and go to the gym, I take care of my physical appearance, I get her gifts here and there, I always compliment her and tell her she's beautiful, I'm always trying to keep the romance alive (i.e. setting up nice date nights and putting on nice clothes for her), and yes I do shower and wash my private parts so I don't have swamp ass; it's sad that I have to make that clear, but this is Reddit after all. However, at least 70% of the time the date nights are met with her putting in much less effort than me, or her simply not wanting to go on a date night because she makes some excuse about being too tired or busy. Sex is also vanilla at best. Mostly consists of a quickie once a week at best before we go to bed. I've asked her if she could put on some lingerie for me but she balked at the idea. I even tried wearing mesh boxers and a banana hammock once, and she just laughed at me. Fast forward to this past weekend, my girlfriend is out of town for the next two weeks to spend the holidays with her family. Yesterday I was at home in my office filling out something, but my pen went dry so I went into her office to see there was a spare one I could use in there. I noticed something lacy and pink poking out of one of the drawers (it has a cutout handle which you can see inside), which was odd since I've never seen her wear anything lacy or pink. My curiosity got the better of me and I opened up the drawer, and lo and behold it was full of lingerie and even roleplay costumes, including a schoolgirl costume which she mentioned once in passing that she finds gross. Some of it still has tags on and some doesn't. Given that I helped her pack and unpack everything, including her clothes, she either bought this after moving here, or she stowed it somewhere else until after the move. I'm at a loss for words here. I'm confused and suspicious, all sorts of questions are running amok through my head: Why would she waste so much money on something she disdains the idea of wearing, considering she's such a frugal person? Why does she feel the need to hide this from me? Does she plan to wear this for someone else? Is she doing OnlyFans or something and keeping me in the dark? Am I wrong for thinking that something is fishy here? submitted by /u/BeneficialCake6757 to r/amiwrong link comments
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*Телескоп «Джеймс Уэбб» показал потрясающее фото Урана и его колец*

Похоже на сияющую жемчужину или портал между мирами.
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*Форма одежды и знаки*

Органы и Внутренние войска НКВД 1935-1937г. Напомню, что Внутренние войска за годы своего существования претерпевали многочисленные реорганизации, переименования, и т.д. С созданием сразу после октябрьского переворота ...via forma full 5 https://ift.tt/uYKcme5 Manage Unsubscribe from these notifications or sign in to manage your Email service.IFTTT Manage on IFTTT: https://ifttt.com/myrecipes/personal/114580525
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*Военизированная*

Военизированная охрана (ВОХР) — вооружённые боевым ручным стрелковым огнестрельным оружием специализированные подразделения охраны с особым правовым статусом...via forma full 5 https://ift.tt/mUOTJ1l Manage Unsubscribe from these notifications or sign in to manage your Email service.IFTTT Manage on IFTTT: https://ifttt.com/myrecipes/personal/114580525
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Форма одежды и знаки

Органы и Внутренние войска НКВД 1935-1937г. Напомню, что Внутренние войска за годы своего существования претерпевали многочисленные реорганизации, переименования, и т.д. С созданием сразу после октябрьского переворота ...via forma full 5 https://ift.tt/uYKcme5 Manage Unsubscribe from these notifications or sign in to manage your Email service.IFTTT Manage on IFTTT: https://ifttt.com/myrecipes/personal/114580525
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*Форменная одежда*

Форменная одежда для руководства, иных должностных лиц центрального аппарата и ...via forma full 5 https://ift.tt/J2wkM8g Manage Unsubscribe from these notifications or sign in to manage your Email service.IFTTT Manage on IFTTT: https://ifttt.com/myrecipes/personal/114580525
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Военизированная

Военизированная охрана (ВОХР) — вооружённые боевым ручным стрелковым огнестрельным оружием специализированные подразделения охраны с особым правовым статусом...via forma full 5 https://ift.tt/mUOTJ1l Manage Unsubscribe from these notifications or sign in to manage your Email service.IFTTT Manage on IFTTT: https://ifttt.com/myrecipes/personal/114580525
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Форменная одежда

Форменная одежда для руководства, иных должностных лиц центрального аппарата и ...via forma full 5 https://ift.tt/J2wkM8g Manage Unsubscribe from these notifications or sign in to manage your Email service.IFTTT Manage on IFTTT: https://ifttt.com/myrecipes/personal/114580525
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*Xiaomi SU7 Max electric car spotted on the road; launch in 2024*

The Xiaomi SU7 Max electric car has been spotted on the road. This is one of three SU7 series cars that the company presented a couple of months ago. It’s the best look at the car that we’ve had thus far. The Xiaomi SU7 Max electric car has been spotted on the road If you check out the video provided below this paragraph, you’ll see the thing in the flesh. It does look rather sporty, and gives off both Aston Martin and Tesla vibes, at least to me personally. It sure does look nice. Xiaomi SU7 Max
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*I’m a Comedian. Here’s My Last 4 Minutes Of Jokes*

It’s making me type something here before it will let me push the post button. submitted by /u/ComedianMikeB to r/funny [link] [comments]
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I’m a Comedian. Here’s My Last 4 Minutes Of Jokes

It’s making me type something here before it will let me push the post button. submitted by /u/ComedianMikeB to r/funny link comments
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What trendy style of tattoo will be considered a “tramp stamp” 10 years from now?

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*Канг отвоевался: Marvel уволила Джонатана Мейджорса *

Он дебютировал в сериале «Локи» и должен был стать новой угрозой уровня Мстителей, но не сложилось.
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