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*AITAH: For not wanting to sell my house as a widower with 2 young kids?*

So my late wife of almost 11yrs passed away 1.5yrs ago from cancer. I was by her side until the end and we have a now 8yr old daughter and 4yr old son. Daughter is in therapy, son still doesn't quite understand, so I feel the need to make sure he doesn't forget his mommy, so I share pics and vids of her. For the past 6mos, I've been dating a wonderful, understanding woman that is beautiful, successful, younger, never been married and has no kids and owns her own house. We're both professionals and she makes more than me. She absolutely loves the kids and they love her. So, I'm not one to hold back in my intentions, but we have discussed our future together. I've lived in my house for 5-6yrs. My kids have grown up in this house. I've taken down a lot of pics of my late wife and me outta respect for my GF. Understandably, she has hesitation beginning our new life as a family in the same house. I don't like moving, I got a pool, half acre, literally right next to their school, two story BIG house. My daughter doesn't wanna leave her school nor do I since they've handled the passing of her mom beautifully. It's worth almost double what we bought it for because of inflation, and she wants to explore buying a similar house in the same school district. I don't want to lose my equity since it's for my kids and retirement. Any house that is similar is going to be ridiculously overpriced and God forbid a collapse happens again. AITAH for not wanting to sell for another house? EDIT: I also gave her free range to decide any renovations to my house if she decides to move in EDIT 2: She's not talking about selling the home now, but in the future for when we eventually live together. EDIT 3: Pics of me and my late wife were placed in kids' rooms. Family pics and pics of her and the kids still up in the house EDIT 4: She's 32, I'm 40. I consider that young. EDIT 5: Showed her this post where we were both ripped to shreds, and she agreed with the most of you. EDIT 6: As it comes to erasure, she has made it a point to keep the memory of their mom alive and speaks to both of them about her encouraging them to tell her stories about their mom. She is a proponent of keeping family pics with her up. submitted by /u/bobbydigital_ftw to r/AITAH [link] [comments]
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AITAH: For not wanting to sell my house as a widower with 2 young kids?

So my late wife of almost 11yrs passed away 1.5yrs ago from cancer. I was by her side until the end and we have a now 8yr old daughter and 4yr old son. Daughter is in therapy, son still doesn't quite understand, so I feel the need to make sure he doesn't forget his mommy, so I share pics and vids of her. For the past 6mos, I've been dating a wonderful, understanding woman that is beautiful, successful, younger, never been married and has no kids and owns her own house. We're both professionals and she makes more than me. She absolutely loves the kids and they love her. So, I'm not one to hold back in my intentions, but we have discussed our future together. I've lived in my house for 5-6yrs. My kids have grown up in this house. I've taken down a lot of pics of my late wife and me outta respect for my GF. Understandably, she has hesitation beginning our new life as a family in the same house. I don't like moving, I got a pool, half acre, literally right next to their school, two story BIG house. My daughter doesn't wanna leave her school nor do I since they've handled the passing of her mom beautifully. It's worth almost double what we bought it for because of inflation, and she wants to explore buying a similar house in the same school district. I don't want to lose my equity since it's for my kids and retirement. Any house that is similar is going to be ridiculously overpriced and God forbid a collapse happens again. AITAH for not wanting to sell for another house? EDIT: I also gave her free range to decide any renovations to my house if she decides to move in EDIT 2: She's not talking about selling the home now, but in the future for when we eventually live together. EDIT 3: Pics of me and my late wife were placed in kids' rooms. Family pics and pics of her and the kids still up in the house EDIT 4: She's 32, I'm 40. I consider that young. EDIT 5: Showed her this post where we were both ripped to shreds, and she agreed with the most of you. EDIT 6: As it comes to erasure, she has made it a point to keep the memory of their mom alive and speaks to both of them about her encouraging them to tell her stories about their mom. She is a proponent of keeping family pics with her up. submitted by /u/bobbydigitalftw to r/AITAH [link] [comments]
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*Is it standard to keep your shoes on in the house?*

My new friend came to my house last night after college so we could play video games. I was like, "Mate, take off your shoes 'fore you come in 'cuz it's not good to walk around like that in here." Then he said, "Nah, man. I'm alright." So I told him, "Yeah, but you just gotta else you're gonna be tracking in mud, bro." He still refused and tried to go in, but I told him to leave them at the door because my family won't like it, and we can play in the living room quicker if he hurries up. Mate got pissed after five minutes even when I tried to offer slippers and ended up leaving. I talked to him today and he said he don't wanna be friends no more? Could just be because I'm Southeast-Asian but I'm pretty sure it's expected to take off your shoes when at home / in someone's house, right? submitted by /u/author-miglett2 to r/CasualUK [link] [comments]
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Is it standard to keep your shoes on in the house?

My new friend came to my house last night after college so we could play video games. I was like, "Mate, take off your shoes 'fore you come in 'cuz it's not good to walk around like that in here." Then he said, "Nah, man. I'm alright." So I told him, "Yeah, but you just gotta else you're gonna be tracking in mud, bro." He still refused and tried to go in, but I told him to leave them at the door because my family won't like it, and we can play in the living room quicker if he hurries up. Mate got pissed after five minutes even when I tried to offer slippers and ended up leaving. I talked to him today and he said he don't wanna be friends no more? Could just be because I'm Southeast-Asian but I'm pretty sure it's expected to take off your shoes when at home / in someone's house, right? submitted by /u/author-miglett2 to r/CasualUK link comments
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*Struggling with Joe Recently.*

Long time listener. Love Joe and his interview style. For years he’s brought fantastic guests to the table with great dialogue. He’s #1 for a reason and I still love him/the show overall. This comment relates to more of a trend I’ve noticed. Recently I’ve felt like he’s taken those same guests who had a great first interview or 2, brought them back, and less often keeps it on topic to their specialities. Somehow the conversation swings back to more political and geopolitical topics - China/Russia, the wars of the world, and just plain bashing things - the left, Biden, Canada, Australia, etc. To be clear I’m as center as they come… I don’t care what side he sits on. Honestly I’m more politically agnostic and would rather skip the same convos on US/world issues and focus more on the speciality of the guests on the show. He’s of course entitled to his opinion and it’s overall welcomed, It just feels like that as of late, the same sound track is getting stuffed into a lot of conversations. Starting to feel like im listening to a conversation with “that uncle” that always starts every talk with “you know what’s wrong with this country?”. Curious if I’m the only one. submitted by /u/Greaseskull to r/JoeRogan [link] [comments]
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Struggling with Joe Recently.

Long time listener. Love Joe and his interview style. For years he’s brought fantastic guests to the table with great dialogue. He’s #1 for a reason and I still love him/the show overall. This comment relates to more of a trend I’ve noticed. Recently I’ve felt like he’s taken those same guests who had a great first interview or 2, brought them back, and less often keeps it on topic to their specialities. Somehow the conversation swings back to more political and geopolitical topics - China/Russia, the wars of the world, and just plain bashing things - the left, Biden, Canada, Australia, etc. To be clear I’m as center as they come… I don’t care what side he sits on. Honestly I’m more politically agnostic and would rather skip the same convos on US/world issues and focus more on the speciality of the guests on the show. He’s of course entitled to his opinion and it’s overall welcomed, It just feels like that as of late, the same sound track is getting stuffed into a lot of conversations. Starting to feel like im listening to a conversation with “that uncle” that always starts every talk with “you know what’s wrong with this country?”. Curious if I’m the only one. submitted by /u/Greaseskull to r/JoeRogan link comments
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An Iowa fight over a Satanic display reminds us: Republicans believe "free speech" is only for them

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*my boss sent me this text after asking to be paid*

i (21M) work in a very small bakery in upstate NY. my boss (52F) is the owner of the bakery. i get paid under the table in cash. we work alone together a lot of the time, and so we have opened up to each other about a lot of things. when i opened up to her about my family’s financial situation, it was because i trusted her. i did not do so for pity, nor did i expect to have it used against me. lately she has been paying me late, and so occasionally i’ll ask if she’s done payroll bc i need to get food. yesterday she replied with this. i’m speechless submitted by /u/queermarxisttrekkie to r/antiwork [link] [comments]
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my boss sent me this text after asking to be paid

i (21M) work in a very small bakery in upstate NY. my boss (52F) is the owner of the bakery. i get paid under the table in cash. we work alone together a lot of the time, and so we have opened up to each other about a lot of things. when i opened up to her about my family’s financial situation, it was because i trusted her. i did not do so for pity, nor did i expect to have it used against me. lately she has been paying me late, and so occasionally i’ll ask if she’s done payroll bc i need to get food. yesterday she replied with this. i’m speechless submitted by /u/queermarxisttrekkie to r/antiwork link comments
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Official Poster for 'Madame Web'

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*How’s it possible people in the US are making $100-150k and it’s still “not enough”?*

I'm not from the US, but I keep up to date with US economics and politics, and a common theme I see is that even people with low to mid 6 figure salaries are barely able to make ends meet. Why exactly is this happening? Are things that bad? ​ submitted by /u/Rare_Bad7473 to r/NoStupidQuestions [link] [comments]
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*This month I am doing multiple large Worldwide Giveaways. Here is the first one, valued at $300. Read the comments or watch the video for the full rules. Supported by Game Master Engine. [OC]*

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This month I am doing multiple large Worldwide Giveaways. Here is the first one, valued at $300. Read the comments or watch the video for the full rules. Supported by Game Master Engine. [OC]

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Rockstar ‘Don’t Have the Resources’ for PC Port At Launch Says Former Developer

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