I refuse to stay for my child, AITAH ?
I never wanted to be a father. I'm the oldest of six kids and most of my childhood and teen years were spent being a third parent to my younger siblings. My ex girlfriend knew this from the start of our relationship in 2017. She said she was fine with it. Then at some point during the pandemic she got severe baby fever which she admitted probably happened because both her sister and best friend had their babies between late 2020 and mid 2021. She said she didn't think she wanted to be a mom until then and her mind couldn't change back. I told her no but if this was something she felt strongly about we could break up and she could find a man who wants to be a father. We went on a break for a few months before she asked me to get back together. She said she had time to think and while still wanted to be a mom, would try to just be cool being an aunty. Then we move to mid 22 where she tells me she's pregnant, it's mine and she's not getting an abortion. I asked how and she admitted she'd been off her BC for some time. I was furious. She had our baby earlier this year and I just can't do it. I never wanted to be a dad. She knew this six years ago. I get that her mind changed but then she said she'd be chill about having a baby so I thought we would genuinely move past that. I expected it to come up again but not a pregnancy. I've told her I'm leaving. I make good money and will pay child support. But I never wanted this. She didn't at first then she did then she went and did all of this to me. So now I'm looking like a massive A-Hole to everyone from friends to family to random people we're loosely acquainted with because I'm the dad who's ditching his child. AITAH? Edit: I have not been replying due to work and commuting home. For all the why not a vasectomy questions: here's the thing, I like kids. I had great experiences with my siblings when I was young and with my younger cousins. So despite not wanting to be a dad, I did hold out on the off chance that one day something might change, I'd put my past behind me. It was a 'For the 1% - 5% chance I start wanting to have a child' choice. Essentially I never wanted to be a dad but like my gf's mind changed, I was always aware of the possibility that my mind could change at some point. People are complicated sometimes. submitted by /u/ThingfromtheBlackBog to r/AITAH link comments
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I never wanted to be a father. I'm the oldest of six kids and most of my childhood and teen years were spent being a third parent to my younger siblings. My ex girlfriend knew this from the start of our relationship in 2017. She said she was fine with it. Then at some point during the pandemic she got severe baby fever which she admitted probably happened because both her sister and best friend had their babies between late 2020 and mid 2021. She said she didn't think she wanted to be a mom until then and her mind couldn't change back. I told her no but if this was something she felt strongly about we could break up and she could find a man who wants to be a father. We went on a break for a few months before she asked me to get back together. She said she had time to think and while still wanted to be a mom, would try to just be cool being an aunty. Then we move to mid 22 where she tells me she's pregnant, it's mine and she's not getting an abortion. I asked how and she admitted she'd been off her BC for some time. I was furious. She had our baby earlier this year and I just can't do it. I never wanted to be a dad. She knew this six years ago. I get that her mind changed but then she said she'd be chill about having a baby so I thought we would genuinely move past that. I expected it to come up again but not a pregnancy. I've told her I'm leaving. I make good money and will pay child support. But I never wanted this. She didn't at first then she did then she went and did all of this to me. So now I'm looking like a massive A-Hole to everyone from friends to family to random people we're loosely acquainted with because I'm the dad who's ditching his child. AITAH? Edit: I have not been replying due to work and commuting home. For all the why not a vasectomy questions: here's the thing, I like kids. I had great experiences with my siblings when I was young and with my younger cousins. So despite not wanting to be a dad, I did hold out on the off chance that one day something might change, I'd put my past behind me. It was a 'For the 1% - 5% chance I start wanting to have a child' choice. Essentially I never wanted to be a dad but like my gf's mind changed, I was always aware of the possibility that my mind could change at some point. People are complicated sometimes. submitted by /u/ThingfromtheBlackBog to r/AITAH link comments
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*Any movies where the "bad guy" is revealed to be the "good guy"?*
So there's plenty of movies that lead the audience to believe a character is in the right, or helps the protagonist, or is the protagonist, only to reveal at the end that they had an ulterior motive or evil plan or betrayal in mind. But what about the opposite? What films make the audience root against a character and then show us that they were right the whole time? Spoilers allowed, I'm just looking for something that fits this theme. Edit: Would you guys agree with me that Mr. Nevercracker from Monster House counts? Yay or nay? Edit 2: Loving the discussion here guys, so many movies to watch now, thanks! I do have to say that I'm seeing some popular answers like Star Wars (Vader) and Megamind, however those don't really fit what I'm asking for. I said characters that "were right the whole time". Megamind wasn't right until the last 20 minutes and Vader spent a grand total of 90 seconds being right. submitted by /u/Pooyiong to r/movies [link] [comments]
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So there's plenty of movies that lead the audience to believe a character is in the right, or helps the protagonist, or is the protagonist, only to reveal at the end that they had an ulterior motive or evil plan or betrayal in mind. But what about the opposite? What films make the audience root against a character and then show us that they were right the whole time? Spoilers allowed, I'm just looking for something that fits this theme. Edit: Would you guys agree with me that Mr. Nevercracker from Monster House counts? Yay or nay? Edit 2: Loving the discussion here guys, so many movies to watch now, thanks! I do have to say that I'm seeing some popular answers like Star Wars (Vader) and Megamind, however those don't really fit what I'm asking for. I said characters that "were right the whole time". Megamind wasn't right until the last 20 minutes and Vader spent a grand total of 90 seconds being right. submitted by /u/Pooyiong to r/movies link comments
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So there's plenty of movies that lead the audience to believe a character is in the right, or helps the protagonist, or is the protagonist, only to reveal at the end that they had an ulterior motive or evil plan or betrayal in mind. But what about the opposite? What films make the audience root against a character and then show us that they were right the whole time? Spoilers allowed, I'm just looking for something that fits this theme. Edit: Would you guys agree with me that Mr. Nevercracker from Monster House counts? Yay or nay? Edit 2: Loving the discussion here guys, so many movies to watch now, thanks! I do have to say that I'm seeing some popular answers like Star Wars (Vader) and Megamind, however those don't really fit what I'm asking for. I said characters that "were right the whole time". Megamind wasn't right until the last 20 minutes and Vader spent a grand total of 90 seconds being right. submitted by /u/Pooyiong to r/movies link comments
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*I mean, he has a point*
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*My brown dog has 6 white hairs on the tip of her tail*
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*Drove a rental car for 4.5 hours to get to Fort Worth for a Lauryn Hill concert. Rented an air bnb. Arranged for child care. Took off of work. Get there and the show has been canceled 1.5 hours before doors open. & i was worried she was gonna show up*
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*Terry Crews Calling Out*
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*US Army personnel at Fort Sill launched Halloween candy to kids using a M142 HIMARS rocket system*
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*‘Ultimate in Luxury’: Range Rover’s SV Bespoke Service Offers a DIY Dream Car*
Range Rover keeps upping the ante on luxury and performance alike and we’re not just talking about its superlative vehicles. Having recently stayed at the new Range Rover House in the heart of Thredbo, we can say with confidence that the brand has similarly mastered […] Visit Man of Many for the full post.
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*Who exactly has a need for routers this expensive? What should one actually get to futureproof their network?*
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*Support nerfs are here*
Last page is Zen. I couldn’t fit the image and the changes in one screenshot Personally I think these are the most minuscule nerfs I’ve ever seen. And then there’s Lifeweaver who got a bigger nerf than anyone else I really hope these are just the first of many support nerfs. Cause this CANT be it. submitted by /u/Knight-112 to r/Overwatch [link] [comments]
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Last page is Zen. I couldn’t fit the image and the changes in one screenshot Personally I think these are the most minuscule nerfs I’ve ever seen. And then there’s Lifeweaver who got a bigger nerf than anyone else I really hope these are just the first of many support nerfs. Cause this CANT be it. submitted by /u/Knight-112 to r/Overwatch link comments
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Last page is Zen. I couldn’t fit the image and the changes in one screenshot Personally I think these are the most minuscule nerfs I’ve ever seen. And then there’s Lifeweaver who got a bigger nerf than anyone else I really hope these are just the first of many support nerfs. Cause this CANT be it. submitted by /u/Knight-112 to r/Overwatch link comments
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*Good kids*
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